Wisdom Wednesday Returns | Be Somebody Who Makes Everybody Feel Like A Somebody

by - September 09, 2015

photo credit to : Conscious Magazine

Happy Wednesday Babes,
If you have been following my blog for awhile you might remember that way back when I used to do a little segment called Wisdom Wednesday where I would impart some wisdom on you every, you guessed it, Wednesday. It has been quite some time since I've done one of those posts and I do actually miss it. Because not only did I enjoy that maybe I might be helping a few of you reading, but it also really helped me.
Anyone who knows me in real life, knows that I give people advice all the time. Doesn't matter what it is about, and it doesn't matter if they ask me for it or not. I know that it's not always the best trait but I can't help it. I'm a helper, I like to help people. I'm also incredibly nosy and I won't lie to you, when I was younger most of the reason I wanted to be a psychiatrist was because I just wanted people to tell me their secrets. But as much as I dish the advice out, I have a hard time taking my own, and back when I was writing Wisdom Wednesday , it helped me do that a little more.
So I am bringing it back. I'll do my very best to inspire you guys every Wednesday with a quote and some wisdom to go along with it, and if I skip a week I hope I can count on you guys to give me a hard time about it!

"be somebody who makes everyone feel like a somebody"
I have been thinking about this a lot this summer. I think in large part it has to do with recent videos I have seen online and things I have read. Just general hate on the internet really. As we all know, with the advancements of technology today, internet hate, and cyber bullying is becoming more and more prominent with people of all ages. Obviously there is a lot of emphasis on teaching children the rights and wrongs of using the internet and cyber bullying is a big part of that lesson, however as I get older I am shocked to find out that a lot of the hate isn't just coming from kids who don't know better. It's coming from people my age and older, adults who should be able to consciously know that talking trash about someone makes you the worst kind of person. Talking trash in general is hateful and pathetic but when it is online it's even more so.
As you all know I spend a lot of my time online. I have this blog, a Tumblr, Instagram and Twitter, and my YouTube Channel. So I know it is naïve to think that I won't see any internet hate. But it makes me so sad, and so angry when I see it coming from people who should know better. Sites like Guru Gossiper, where you literally just go on to talk shit about a YouTuber you don't like drive me insane. It just blows my mind that people waste their time being so spiteful and having so much hate.
Which is why I think this bit of wisdom is so important. I think everybody should strive to make other people feel like they are somebody, that their opinions matter, and their existence is important. Maybe it's just me but I feel incredible about myself when I am able to make someone else smile. So of course I am going to aim to feel that way all of the time.  

I encourage you all to do your best to be the kind of person that makes other people feel like they matter. I promise you, you'll love it!
Much Love,
Spenser xx

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