Don't Make Time For People Who Don't Make Time For You | Wisdom Wednesday

by - February 22, 2017

Don't make time for people who don't make time for you. Seems like a no brainer when you say it out loud (or I suppose in this case read it in your head). Though I think this is something most of us are guilty of in many aspects of our lives. Whether it be in friendship or a romantic relationship. Especially if you're anything like me, where you allow yourself to be the one always pursuing the other, because the thought of having to say goodbye, or cut that person out is a lot harder than always making the first move.
But honestly, you eventually reach a boiling point, where all these feelings of being in a one-sided relationship start to surface, and it start's to drive you nuts.
And I've been there, I've actually been there quite a few times. And it's such a sucky feeling (good descriptive words Spense), like you're the only one who cares enough to keep the whole thing going. In many of my romantic relationships that has been the case, and perhaps it's because I only date jerks, or maybe I get too attached too easily, but either way I usually find myself being the one who is trying to set up dates, or times to get together, or being totally okay with being stood up. That was until I took a step back and realized that's not what I deserve. I'm worthy of being with someone who will make time for me, who will be excited to make time for me. Because there is a difference between someone who wants you when it is convenient for them, and someone who will do what it takes to keep you around, even when it is less convenient.

And that applies to all of you too! In any sort of relationship. You are all worthy to be in two-sided relationships, where you make time for others, and they make time for you right back! So don't make time for people who don't make time for you, because life is too short to spend your time chasing someone who obviously doesn't care enough to keep you in their life!

Much Love,

Spense xx

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